Tuesday

so this is Goodbye... for now...

My heart is heavy today... I have spent the past three months considering this post, and whether or not I should even publish it, but my considerations have brought me to this place and I feel it is the right decision. I am going to be taking a hiatus from the blogging world. I am realizing each day how important it is to spend quality time with those I love, and as those of you know who are also bloggers, blogs take a lot of time. The current content on this and my cooking blog will remain and should any of my readers have any questions, please feel free to email them to me at jakigh@gmail.com.

This is not goodbye forever by any means... Simply a goodbye for a while so I can focus on parenting and the small moments in life with the people I love. I appreciate your understanding and hope you all stay connected! I no longer have FaceBook, however have Twitter and Instagram, usernames for both; @jakigh,  so feel free to add and stay in touch that way.

I am looking forward to returning to the blog world in the future, when I have more time to dedicate to it. Much love and thank you all for your support!

Sunday

full circle

After recently attending quite a number of parties, (with more in the upcoming week), I've really come to appreciate how the right accessories can change the same outfit. It's incredible how a tangerine belt and matching bangle looks so different than a simple stack of gold bangles, when paired with a printed cocktail dress. All of this thinking about accessories inspired me to write a post for all of you bling-loving ladies out there. As I've mentioned before, it's important to always consider the true cost of an item before purchasing it. Many cheap chain store and mall items are from factories that use child labor, encourage physical and sexual abuse as well as force workers to work in dangerous conditions. I admit, I have fallen under the spell of such cheap finds from time to time. I think it's fair to say we've all had our weak moments, but that doesn't mean we can't change! I'd like to share a few of my favorite companies and the reasons why I feel it's important to support them (at the same time , you're getting amazing accessories!) You can have your cake and eat it too.... or in this case, you can have your fabulous accessories and a clear conscience!

The first option I'll share is 31 Bits. They offer stunning collections handmade by women in Uganda. Here is a paragraph from their site explaining what they are all about: We are currently working with 63 women in Gulu, Uganda. We purchase jewelry from each woman on a monthly basis, providing them with an immediate, consistent, and fair income. Each piece of jewelry is handmade using 100% recycled paper and other local materials. By selling these products in the international market, we are able to generate a profit that is used to continue purchasing jewelry for our beneficiaries, as well provide them with numerous development programs, equipping them to develop a career and attain social equity on a local level. We are committed to working with each woman until she has graduated from our program and attained a sustainable means of income within her own community. Click HERE to read more about all of the programs 31 Bits has established in Uganda... They are really quite remarkable, and their jewelry is stunning!
The next site is the Starfish Project. This company is more inspiring and amazing than I can possibly describe. They start from the ground up by building relationships and offering basic necessities and support to women trapped in sexual exploitation. They provide assistance and shelter to the women, and since 2007 has been providing them with a way to make an alternate income; jewelry making. Here is a brief description from their website, and please visit HERE to read more of this incredible story!  Starfish Project staff and volunteers regularly go out to the streets to find and develop relationships with women still trapped in exploitation. Nearly all of the women have histories of degradation and abuse before they became trapped in exploitation, so the Starfish Project seeks to affirm each woman as worthwhile and being of value. In 2007 the project opened a jewelry business to provide an alternate source of income for the women in the shelter. By participating in various aspects of jewelry making and distribution, each woman earns a salary that keeps them off the street and in a healthy and life-giving working environment. The profits from the sales of jewelry support the women of Starfish Project and help create for the women a stable environment and financial independence. 
And lastly I'm including NightLight. A similar company to Starfish Project, NightLight assists in the rescuing and rehabilitation of women and young children trapped in sexual slavery. The jewelry is gorgeousm and when you wear it and you ask yourself "at what cost?", the answer is something like this... "(By purchasing this necklace, I helped to) build relationships and provide hope, intervention, rescue and assistance to women and children exploited in the sex industry by offering alternative employment, vocational opportunities, life-skills training and physical, emotional and spiritual development to women seeking freedom. NightLight builds support networks internationally to intervene and assist women, men and children whose lives are negatively impacted by the sex industry." Makes you feel good, right?! Read more about NightLight HERE





Wednesday

Lust List




NATALIE DISSEL JEWELRY 
To say that I am obsessed with Natalie Dissel's designs is an understatement. They are finely crafted, yet maintain a wild and uninhibited quality that I adore. Not only is she insanely talented, Natalie also has a sustainable and passionate focus. Through fundraising and charitable donations, she has provided educational support to orphans in Thailand; bought fishing boats and funded housing in Phuket; and collected money to purchase books and fund teacher's salaries in Kibera. 

For now (for me), her gorgeous bling must remain only on the Lust List; but someday, I would be honored to purchase a piece or two and know that part of the proceeds will go to such amazing causes.  

Monday

Lust List

I am starting a segment called Lust List. In Lust List, I will be featuring luxurious things or places, that given an unlimited income, I would indulge in. The first entry on my Lust List, is this pair of EcoTrash Louboutin heels. Each pair is one of a kind, and is completely made from scraps from previous Louboutin collections! Now if only I could justify shelling out $1100 for a pair....